細心

Since Phebe was born, I have been losing tons of hair. 5-6 piece even when I just sit and do nth.

Very scary scene after bath.

Hin is so sweet that he buys me 霸王 coz' my sis this is good. Thanks!

7th Anniversary

Today's our 7th anniversary. We celebrated it on Thursday night. Thanks Ben for recommending the restaurant. It was a nice place, quiet environment.

The last 7 years was a wonderful time in my life, with Hin ran into my life to experience the ups and downs. We tied the knots and now we have Phebe. These are all grace from God.

I asked Hin to guess how many 7 years we gonna have in the years ahead..6? 7?

Yeah

Phebe went to see the doctor last week and she now weighs 13 lbs already! wow.....Pray that she continues to grow up into a healthy and strong gal.

Injection Day

My BB has much new experience today: Injection, Fever and Medication.

She cried very very loud when the needle touch her little thigh but stop right away when the doc gave her sweet medicine. Haha~

However, she tried a totally different taste when she took the fever syrup. Anthony refused to taste the syrup but we all assumed it's bitter, given my BB's weird facial expression.

Phebe Lai

BB is now 7 wks old and we are getting used to each other. She finally has a name - 黎約妍 . This is to remember God's unconditional covenant made to us, remind us to keep this promise/ belief and our expectation to BB to be a clever and pretty gal. (Hee hee, seems like this is a high expectation to her coz' she's soooooo o naughty!) She is a BB who likes eating but not sleeping. Carrying a 10 lb BB begins to be a tiring job now, esp she always asks for carrying.

Although it's very tiring to wake up a couple of times at night time, I always feel happy to see her innocent face. Children are really lovable in everyone's sight.

事事感恩

Lai BB almost a month old now. My home HAS CHANGED A LOT since she's born and I've used a lot of effort to get used to this, both physically, emotionally and mentally.

BB always demand to eat. She does not like sleeping. (too bad!) => We didn't have good sleep at mid-night!!! Although it's kinda exhausting and 無耐 when she keeps on crying, 但當見到佢笑 or 叫,就會有無限欣慰,亦會很感恩,因為從pregnant 到 surgery 到現在,神都保守我和BB. BB's safe delivery and good health 不是必然的.

I've gone thru' a number of 一生之最:

1. Most frightened - waiting outside the surgery room ALONE, waiting for the 麻醉師打完針(用力用到腳都痺), my doc asked for the forceps ,"快D! 快D!", but no one gave it to her after a long while... (Thankful that I know God's with me during these moments and my BB gave me 最大的勇氣去get thru!)
2. Most 畢生難忘 with Anthony - hearing my BB's first cry (apart from our wedding oath), first sight on our baby, prayer with Hin after coming out from the surgery room.
3. Most boring - staying at home (except going to doc appt) for a WHOLE month to milk the BB.
4. Most "fruitful" diet - 全雞宴 3 meals a day, for a WHOLE month
5. Most exhausted nights - woke up 3, 6, 9am...etc

and of coz'
6. Most painful - the wound, the sleepless night after the surgery...

要向天下的母親致最深的敬意,謝謝妳的愛! 亦更體會神祢向祢子民所說的,"你是屬我的."的意思.

March 14 My BB's birthday !

Give thanks to the Lord and our dear family who support us always, my BB came to this world on the 14th safely. Her father mentioned her first greeting to this world was "very loud" in the surgery room.

Surgery Today!

The decision was made just within a few hrs yesterday that we gave up natural delivery. With my family's support (esp Hin), although I can stay try to use induction but there's no guarantee that I can make it given BB's big size (7.7lbs), not ideal 宮頸 situation and dunno how long it's gonna wait during the 陣痛. Anywayz, we put these onto our Heavenly Father and He would open the right path to us.

My high blood pressure is bothering me so much these days. Plus a little bit nervous, I couldn't sleep at night, suffer from serious headache and sooo tired. My husband always need to clam me for not being mad at the maid, o/w BP raise again! Anywayz, Just a few more hrs to go and we can see our little bb..ha~

Nov 08 Suly Sunny Wedding

Still can wear boots ! Yeah.

Love and Dislike

愛得越深,當受到傷害時,失望及厭惡就越大...唯有靠著神的愛去學習原諒,盼望回轉,因為神聽禱告,在神裡,凡事都能.求主幫助.愛能包容很多野..

"我們愛,因為神先愛我們." 約翰一書4:19

My cousin's Son

Maternity leave

Had High Tea w/ Doris last Sat.

Finally, my maid has come and I can take some rest, do more exercise in preparation of bb's come out. It's really a very long waiting period - 37 wks of waiting. Suggested by the doctor, I need to walk a lot everyday. Yesterday, I walked for 1.5hr. Hope that this can help a smoother and quicker labor.

Watched "shopaholic" last night and it was quite funny! Gotta seize the chance to go out w/ Hin.

Valentine's Dinner

My husband and I celebrated the day on Wednesday to avoid the crowded places + the unnecessary spendings. We had dinner at Cafe Milano at Fortress Hill. The food was nice, the places was very quiet. And most important, it's of great value given the qualify of food. (I like the soft bread and the pumklin soup most. Not too sweet and solid.

Do check it out.

Thank you Honey for your V-card!!

35 wk

My baby's size

Weigh 2774g => 6 lbs !
Head 85mm
Foot length 67mm (a little bit below norm. Her father blame on me..... >.<)
waist 320 (1mm above max avg.)

I need to eat more healthy..haha~ o/w she's gonna be a very fat baby.
Getting more excited about the delivery and a bit worried in deed but am learning to leave everything to God coz' He's being held responsible.

Devotion Sharing - Phil 4:1-9

Verse 4-6 are very familiar to us:

"Rejoice in the Lord always. I will say it again: Rejoice! ...... Do not be anxious about anything, but in everything, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving,, present your requests to God...will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus."

This is a good reminder that we should learn to be rejoice no matter what situation we are in - by praying hard and rely on God.

Then it's another familiar verse 8:

"..whatever is true, whatever is noble,.. right, ... pure, ... lovely, .. admirable - .. excellent or praiseworthy - think about such things."

I think only when we firstly throw away our worries and our personally stuff (like daily work, goals which make us self-centered), and rely totally on God, we can have "extra capacity" to think of those true and good things from God. Then we can rejoice in Christ (it's like a cycle), got motivated and live for God.

For the past 7 months, my mind was usu. occupied with the baby stuff: Prepare this and that, how to take care of my own (like what to eat, plenty of rest, where to go), read books and spending time w/ the baby..etc. Really need to learn to cast everything to God and spare my mind to focus back on God. Sometimes, it would be very worrying about my girl's health n development, labour process and future but Father I know you would provide everything and I dun have to bother.

B/S, I'm so sorry that I can't spend time w/ u guys in f/p coz' of my very limited energy level but my mind is still w/ u all, thru' prayers.

Cheers..

Happy Chinese New Year - 32.5 week

Finally, there comes to big holiday! I'll take leave on 初四-初五 and so got a 9-day holiday, Yeah! It's a good chance to rest and recover - hv been sick for 2wks....

Thanks God that in the last check up, the baby's position is better now since last check and I need to "behave" 10 more days, be careful not to move too much. After this critical 4 wks, I can be free! ( in terms of body movement ) God do listen to our prayers.

Peak Walk

Does not look like a preg woman?


In fact it's big! 30 wk ma.